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Friends,
Besides my own personal experiences with dogs most of my life, from my youth on the farm, to right now in retirement, I can only say that a good trained dog can make all the difference in the world for me. A dear, close friend, Captain Robb Bohnen --Special Forces---combat Vietnam Veteran -- 3 tours of duty, once told me: "Tommy, a good dog will be there for you, loyal and faithful, LONG AFTER THE WOMAN left you." And of course, Rob was right. He has trained many great dogs and loves Rottweilers like I do. Robby, if you don't get to read this page, I plan to be calling you during Thanksgiving time, and Dan Totts, too! Have a good, safe, holiday, all of You!
I called the VAMC- in Iron Mtn., MI., Steve G., before I drove there in my Dodge Ram, and the cloudy, dismal morning was warm, about 36 F., and rainy. He agreed to wrap another UNNO-BOOT on my ankle and lower leg, which felt good and compressed, but it's MY job to keep it ELEVATED one way or another ! ! It's getting to be an insanity and a total vexation with me, because the good doctor at the Rehab-- ICMCF--@ Crystal Falls, MI., said that the wound was only one week from being totally HEALED !!! Well, I am not going to 're-hash' things again, but I am just ticked off that it's still open, bloody, tender and Painful, yet ! Steve started picking open the scab, and I asked him to 'PLEASE stop doing that', which he did for me, but just let us do it 'MY WAY' this time. I realize that he was trained to "one particular school of thought" in college, but I have had some 'luck' [success would be a better term] leaving the scab ON. and letting the air get at it. PTL. I know that we could all argue this point for hours --- but suffice it to say that God allowed the scab to form on a wound for a reason! Many so-called 'Medical people' are NOT Believers, like a certain doctor that I know with darker complexion, with all due respect... just stating a fact, but worship the god of science, and that opens a can or worms so many times..... sorry. "Better Living thru Chemistry...lol." There are so many bad reactions and bad side effects caused by this 'Modern Chemistry' than you can shake a stick at. Not that I want to live in the 'Stone Age.' And I have allowed the Nurses to poke me with their needles all day and all night, after the cows came home, for sure, and they have saved my life, I admit, THANK YOU ALL VERY MUCH!! Steve, is a friend of mine, is also a Believer and follower of Jesus Christ, a Bible student and a very smart man. He has helped me many times and I would lay down my life for him if needed. But what I complain about sometimes is: the VA system in general, and the WAY they do things, and waste so much money on protocol and red tape, etc.
So now I am wearing a sandal over all the many wrappings, and I like the rightness and fit-- compression. I also need to limit the time I spend on-line, because I cannot elevate my left leg. Yet, I want to respond to each and ever: "RE-" --EMAIL message and post that I am so blessed to receive ! Smile!
Below is something that I also believe in: a good, well trained dog. Like our Rottweiler boy, "Tazer" whom we had at the pound paying for every day he was away, because we didn't think at the time that I would be able to let him go outside to 'do his duty.' I am now walking with one stick, ONE CANE, and doing better every day -- talking about the progress of my fractured ankle, --- "but this old dog [ME] won't hunt this year..." Maybe NEXT year, mates, buddies, friends. In the mean while, I am looking forward to a home cooked 15 pound Turkey, and I bought a duck too, on Thursday. I figure a man who pays all the bills and keeps the vehicles running ought to have one special Turkey meal per year! I bought the Butterball, etc., and even I can shove that bird into the oven, and read the directions of how long to leaven him in there... lol. Terri PROMISED ME that she would do just that this Thursday, and I will be super nice to her all week, I pray. She is a very fine cook and baker !!! Actually, she is GREAT !
May the Lord smile upon all American Veterans, and let them listen well to the Gospel, please, dear Lord. [Just read the books of John, and Romans --- to get a good sense of the Gospel, please]. In Jesus name. Amen. And... "Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them [wives] according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered." ---1st Peter 3:7. That means that husbands need to "understand" their wives, that they are 'wired differently than men,' that they are usually smaller also in stature and a bit weaker, more emotional perhaps, and they need to know that their husbands love and care for them, by word of mouth, also in actions. IMHO, this seems to be a life long effort, and field of study of which we men can NEVER graduate! And if we don't treat our wives RIGHT, it may even hinder our prayers to the Lord !!! That is serious. I am constantly reminded that I am far from the perfect husband, although I apologized often for being an Oaf and a Boar. Sorry, Terri. But I have not quit trying, and will remain here until the Rapture, if it's the Lord's Will. That reminds me, I need to get my own Will finished.
Love, and Hugs,
Tommy
Pain Management
How Pets Can Ease Chronic Pain
- Reviewed by Niya Jones, MD, MPH
When you're living with pain, animal companionship can provide comforting moments. Finding room in your life for a pet can be part of your pain management plan.
Most pet owners will tell you how much their furry or feathered friends enrich their lives. Pets provide companionship, unconditional love, and joy. For those with chronic pain, pets can give their owners even more. Just ask Maggie Buckley. A former board member of the American Pain Foundation, Buckley has been living with pain most of her life. She says her pets have provided motivation, love, and a lifeline during her darkest hours.
At 13 years old, Buckley was diagnosed with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, a genetic connective tissue disorder that causes easy and frequent bruising, poor wound healing, generalized pain, and joints that dislocate easily. She also has arthritis and migraine headaches. In 1998, her chronic pain conditions forced her to retire early from a position at a digital imaging company.
Buckley struggled to find a new place in the world. She lost her social network at work and felt she lost her identity as well. That’s when a beagle mix named “Q” came into her life and became a core part of her pain management support team.
After obedience and agility training, Buckley and Q were able to communicate with hand signals and verbal commands. Q picked up items that Buckley dropped, saving her from having to bend down. Buckley says Q even had a sixth sense for pain. “She often licked my painful feet or hands as if gently massaging them,” recalls Buckley. “When I had a headache, I swear she used to walk more quietly.”
According to the Delta Society, an organization that promotes human health through the use of animals, what Q gave Buckley is not uncommon. The non-profit group says research shows pets decrease feelings of depression, loneliness, and isolation. Pets may also be able to do your heart some good — they are credited with lowering blood pressure and cholesterol.
Sadly, Q passed away in March 2010. “Q was an inspiration to me and a motivator. She distracted me from my pain with her adorableness, intelligence, and love. I will always remember her as an exceptional creature,” she says.
Ironically, another family tragedy brought a different, but very special animal into Buckley’s home. Following her father’s death in October 2010, Buckley became the proud new mom of her father’s purebred beagle Fred.
Just as Q had done, Fred is helping Buckley get through a life transition. “Fred has been very comforting throughout the emotional upheaval of this great loss,” says Buckley. “Thanks to Fred, I get up in the morning, feed him, take him on a 60-to-90 minute walk, practice his training, play fetch, and cuddle.”
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Buckley says both of her dogs received obedience and agility training, which meant that Q and Fred could help with her daily routine. Both were trained to stand on a special step — using the pedestal command from agility training classes — so that she can more easily reach them to brush them or towel them off when needed. She also keeps her pet supplies on a shelf that she is able to reach easily.
Although no dog could replace Q, Fred is finding his place in the family and helping Buckley with her chronic pain conditions. He has started picking up dropped objects and helped Buckley when she dislocated her ankle. “Fred was right there with me, as calm as could be, keeping me warm as I iced the elevated ankle 20 minutes of every hour,” she says.
Buckley says it’s a wise choice if you can handle the responsibility. “You cannot underestimate the power of pets when one is in pain. A pet comforts you and at the same time takes you out of yourself as you care for them,” she says. “A pet is more powerful than any medication when it comes to comforting, soothing, and distracting you when you are experiencing pain.”
At 13 years old, Buckley was diagnosed with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, a genetic connective tissue disorder that causes easy and frequent bruising, poor wound healing, generalized pain, and joints that dislocate easily. She also has arthritis and migraine headaches. In 1998, her chronic pain conditions forced her to retire early from a position at a digital imaging company.
How Pets Can Help With Pain Management
Q gave Buckley a reason to get up in the morning and get moving. “This little creature needed me — she needed me to take care of her.” Q also enabled Buckley to make some new human connections close to home. Walks through the neighborhood not only provided Buckley with needed exercise, but also gave her the opportunity to get to know the neighbors and make new friends at dog parks.After obedience and agility training, Buckley and Q were able to communicate with hand signals and verbal commands. Q picked up items that Buckley dropped, saving her from having to bend down. Buckley says Q even had a sixth sense for pain. “She often licked my painful feet or hands as if gently massaging them,” recalls Buckley. “When I had a headache, I swear she used to walk more quietly.”
According to the Delta Society, an organization that promotes human health through the use of animals, what Q gave Buckley is not uncommon. The non-profit group says research shows pets decrease feelings of depression, loneliness, and isolation. Pets may also be able to do your heart some good — they are credited with lowering blood pressure and cholesterol.
Sadly, Q passed away in March 2010. “Q was an inspiration to me and a motivator. She distracted me from my pain with her adorableness, intelligence, and love. I will always remember her as an exceptional creature,” she says.
Ironically, another family tragedy brought a different, but very special animal into Buckley’s home. Following her father’s death in October 2010, Buckley became the proud new mom of her father’s purebred beagle Fred.
Just as Q had done, Fred is helping Buckley get through a life transition. “Fred has been very comforting throughout the emotional upheaval of this great loss,” says Buckley. “Thanks to Fred, I get up in the morning, feed him, take him on a 60-to-90 minute walk, practice his training, play fetch, and cuddle.”
Caring for a Pet When You’re Living With Pain
Pets need to be taken care of, even when you’re in pain. Feeding, bathing, and walking them and getting them to the vet can be challenging and can drain your energy. A few adjustments can make their care easier.RELATED: 7 Animal Superheroes We Know You’ll Love
Buckley says both of her dogs received obedience and agility training, which meant that Q and Fred could help with her daily routine. Both were trained to stand on a special step — using the pedestal command from agility training classes — so that she can more easily reach them to brush them or towel them off when needed. She also keeps her pet supplies on a shelf that she is able to reach easily.
Although no dog could replace Q, Fred is finding his place in the family and helping Buckley with her chronic pain conditions. He has started picking up dropped objects and helped Buckley when she dislocated her ankle. “Fred was right there with me, as calm as could be, keeping me warm as I iced the elevated ankle 20 minutes of every hour,” she says.
The Power of Pets
Pet ownership may not be appropriate for everyone living with chronic pain, so ask your medical team if your overall health is good enough to make the commitment. Keep in mind that if pet care becomes too difficult or if you need an occasional break, pet sitters and walkers are available at reasonable rates to help you. The Arthritis Foundation has tips on finding a number of pet care services.Buckley says it’s a wise choice if you can handle the responsibility. “You cannot underestimate the power of pets when one is in pain. A pet comforts you and at the same time takes you out of yourself as you care for them,” she says. “A pet is more powerful than any medication when it comes to comforting, soothing, and distracting you when you are experiencing pain.”